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Back To Life...

After a long period of self-imposed isolation/hibernation, I'm starting to come back to life. I'm a bona fide ENFP, finding that I've morphed into an INFP. I'm still working that out. I have ... and am looking for a sharp mind and a warm heart. I'm tactile, versatile, affectionate, passionate, drama-free. I like to laugh a lot and can be a bit sarcastic... some would say opinionated. I am loyal, honest and open. I'm living in NW DC but I'm always looking for a cooler climate.. and am open to explore. I enjoy pop culture, especially film and enjoy following progressive/liberal politics. I'm a big college basketball fan (Go Heels!) I'm a musician (pianist) and enjoy many types of music in many forms as a spectator and participant. I especially enjoy accompanying a vocalist.

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Sex Preferences

I preferVersatile
I'm aSilver Daddy
DemeanorAverage
OutEveryone knows
HIV StatusNegative

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageIrish
BuildHeavyset
Height180 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorSilver
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureHair
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyAdministrative / Management
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$50,000 - $100,000
Job TitleStaff Assistant/Customer Service Specialist

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchI'm looking for someone who is warm, compassionate, has a quick sense of humor... passionate, tactile - tactile is good . I am looking for someone to laugh with, think with, hangout with, groove with, spoon with. I'm open to chat, coffee, making a new friend, dinner, a movie... and there's nothing wrong with hook ups/connected sex but ultimately, I'd like to end up in something long term. I am sober and would be most comfortable with someone who, at the most, was an occasional drinker. If you're politically conservative, mono-cultural or a tobacco smoker, this wouldn't be a fit. These three are non-negotiable.
Our first dateLow key... movie... dinner... live music... low stress... time to talk... and some time not to feel pressured to keep a conversation going... but to just *be*. Hand holding strongly encouraged if we're comfortable.

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Once a month
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Night clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Pain, scat, blood